So what’s the difference between an Empath and an "Empathic Lightworker"?
I’ve found, on my journey and witnessing the journey of others, the empowered version of being an Empath is the world of an Empathic Lightworker.
It’s the other side of the coin.
And as an Empathic Lightworker myself, I LOVE helping Empaths step out into their light, reclaim themselves and light up the world as their empowered, confident and self-partnered True Self…
Otherwise known as helping Empaths become Empathic Lightworkers.
It’s my big Soul Mission.
And a journey I’ve walked through in my own life and helped hundreds of people do the same.
As an Empathic Lightworker…
You ARE special because of your unique intuitive and healing gifts.
You are ALSO just empathic, picking up on the needs of others with your finely tuned intuitive and healing gifts.
You are NOT destined for a life where you will always have to protect yourself from the world.
You CAN step onto your true path of empowerment and step out into the world, without fear.
When we label ourselves as an Empath, however, we easily get stuck in the unhealed or lower-level experiences of an Empath.
I call this "Empath Survival Mode".
It goes something like this…
“I’m an Empath…I’m special because of my over sensitivity.
I feel everything and I need to protect myself from other people because the world is not a safe place.
Because of this, I cannot go into public spaces without protecting myself from the outside world and even then I’m drained and take on everyone else’s stuff.
I’ve found it’s easier for me to be an observer and help those in the spotlight than risk putting myself out there.
If I stay small and in my own world, it feels safer.”
Living like this (and we all start out like this, myself included), creates an outer fixation where we focus on trying to fix and heal the outer world in order to feel safe within it.
This outer fixation creates:
Intuitively and energetically feeling the emotional state of everyone around you, until you are so enmeshed with others you don't recognize yourself.
Micromanaging your outer world and helping others to grow and heal in order to feel some semblance of balance/safety/security/purpose in your life.
Handing over your power, by becoming complacent in order to not be seen or hurt.
Diming your light, so that others can feel good shining theirs.
When we live fixated on changing our outer world to feel safe in our inner world, we lose our sense of self.
In essence, we’ve left the steering wheel of our body and anyone or anything can intensely affect us at the drop of a hat.
Until we realize how to come back to ourselves and reclaim our life, we can never really help others or permanently shift our lives in positive ways.
Because this outwardly focused state is a very precarious way to live.
It’s a universal law - what we focus upon grows.
When we’re in survival mode and focused on how to survive and feel safe in a chaotic world, every now and again we’ll have a small win or feel safe for a short period of time.
But this feeling of safety and security is fleeting.
Because we’re not in the driver’s seat and anyone and anything can come in and steer our wheel.
Which means the normal up’s and down’s of life rock us to the core.
In this outwardly focused state, as an Empath, we look to the circumstances of our life and the people around us to determine our worth.
When we’re looking to others to validate our choices, it’s really easy to attract:
People who manipulate, use and abuse to gain their source of power.
Very limiting experiences where unhealthy people are the only ones we can turn to for help.
Which trickles into our intimate relationships and work environments.
Attracting experiences where we’re working for, employing, partnering with or attracting people, like the ones above, who:
Deplete our energy
Become fast friends and ignore our personal boundaries
Want a deal or expect us to drop our own needs and help them
Subtly or directly put down our gifts/skills/wisdom and make us feel less than or doubt ourselves
Manipulate us into believing we can’t live without them or they’re the only ones who will hire/work/go out with us
But here’s the secret to moving out of this disempowerment and into the path of the empowered Empathic Lightworker (where we attract genuinely good, healthy and responsible people and experiences into our life):
You were never meant to play small and give your power away to anyone.
No matter what they promised you or what limiting experience you’re having with them.
Everything you create in your world comes from inside of you.
This is the Quantum Law of the Universe, “as within, so without.”
And as an Empathic Lightworker, your powerful superhero gifts are all about creating in quantum time.
That's why you're so intuitive and gifted in sensing the world around you.
But this creator superhero gift only works when you're connected to and creating from the truths within you, not illusions around you.
And not the lies you've been fed about yourself stored in your subconscious.
In order to get back to these empowered gifts as an Empathic Lightworker, you need to release all the lies, gaslighting, manipulation and confusion you've been fed by all the unhealthy people around you.
And which you've been believing about yourself you're whole life....
"You're not good enough."
"You're too weak/vulnerable and way too sensitive."
"You'll never amount to anything."
And when you create from these illusions, you're really just...
Creating very familiar painful experiences over and over again, that you just can't seem to figure out
Believing the fabricated illusion, instead of the reality of an unhealthy situation
Dimming your light and playing small to keep the illusion alive
So how do you heal and release those lies?
And start creating a life you truly LOVE as an Empathic Lightworker...
Feeling truly safe within yourself to get out into the world with your gifts?
By stepping away from fixing the outer world and worrying about the people around you.
And focusing on your True Self by going within, reclaiming and self-partnering.
Your True Self knows how to find and release all the normal unhealthy Empath subconscious programs, woundings, traumas and fears trapped in your body and energy field.
And it knows this is the only way out and into your TRUE empowerment.
Anything else is just a short-term solution for a long-term issue...
That will keep creating more chaos, drama and trauma until you start looking within and clearing the illusions holding you back.
Everything is contained within you as your True Self.
Your True Self is your power point - the birthing center of all your creations.
When you partner with your True Self, you partner with the whole being of who you are in the totality of the universe:
All Divine aspects of you
It’s your manifesting mojo!
The place that reclaims, heals and recreates your life quicker than you thought humanly possible.
Because the more you focus inwardly, the more your life changes for the better.
Working with your True Self reroutes your life into the expansive, abundant, connected and genuinely loving world you never really thought was possible for yourself.
In other words, your world finally becomes the TRULY safe and supportive place where you can truly be yourself.
This is what real transformation looks like.
You can finally be who you’re meant to be out in the world.
You're not responsible for another person’s healing.
You’re only responsible for your own.
This is the honing beacon your True Self is calling you back to yourself with.
And it’s calling you now because we’re at an important evolutionary pivot point on this earth...
That needs Empaths to become empowered Empathic Lightworkers.
Now, more than ever!
Because your TRUE inner light naturally ignites the light in others.
You don’t need to be fully healed to see the transformation unfold.
The act of self-partnering and clearing the illusions starts shifting your life in amazing ways.
Because here’s the other secret Empathic Lightworkers all know…
When you shift and heal, the world shifts and heals.
That’s how true change happens on this planet.
But that only happens when we stop trying to heal the world and start going within.
Get your light out into the world and help others step into their light as well, just by being you – the self-partnered and empowered Empathic Lightworker version.
If this resonates with you, then I invite you to join me in one of my specialty sessions or programs and take back your power by learning to self-partner with your True Self and clear the subconscious programs and inner wounding keeping you small.
You can be seen again and share your incredible gifts and light with the world…without fear!
Become a part of a community of Empathic Lightworkers who have gone within, self-partnered with their True Self and are powerfully anchored on their journey of healing their traumas and woundings and living a life they LOVE.