For lasting and powerful change to occur, we must understand this key concept:
There’s nothing outside of yourself that will shift your reality and heal your life.
We've all done our fair share of using anything in our power to fix and micromanage our outer world to shift our reality.
There's so many things out there designed to do just that.
Yes, there are amazing tools...yes, there are people who give really good advice...
But, they are only a reflection of what your inner being is creating for you - from the inside out.
What you create in your outer world, ALWAYS comes from within yourself.
When you receive an amazing aha from someone...
Find a book that really helps...
Or when an exercise finally released your pain...
Those are ALWAYS because you made room inside yourself and re-structured your inner world to manifest this new step on your path that's exactly what you needed at the perfect time.
No one else did this for you.
And while that person, book and exercise are all amazing...
They are only representing and mirroring for you the amazingness that you claimed for yourself, inside of you, that is your true and natural state of being:
You are truly amazing - a powerful creator who creates all the miracles and everything you need in your life.
How do you keep creating the miracles you need?
To create lasting change and not just random moments of respite in your life, you must commit whole heartedly to re-organizing and cleaning out your inner clutter, what I like to call, your "S.T.U.F.F."
Stuck emotions and subconscious programs
Tricky situations and past experiences
It's the amazing life restructuring and transformational time that everyone dreads and loves afterwards when looking back on it.
And if you truly commit to doing it, I mean really and consistently looking at the things that are coming to the surface using your emotions as your guide (as your emotions connect to your subconscious, which stores the programs that create your life) and doing your deep inner work...
You're well on your way to quickly transforming your life into a life you LOVE!
It's the difference between just putting clothes away or going into every nook and cranny in your closet and cleaning it out...
The closet that's now aligned because it's been super cleaned and organized is now ready to be of great service to you.
You find exactly what you need, when you need it and there's room to bring in more amazing things and outfits that make you feel great.
It's the same thing when you go within, to realign your life...
There’s always a re-organization and cleaning-out inner process that needs to be done, in order for lasting change to occur.
Your True Self knows how to clean out your S.T.U.F.F.
This is the first step onto your path of becoming an Empathic Lightworker, which your Divine True Self has been leading you towards, since you were born…
Aligning to your True Self to self-partner with to reclaim and recreate you and your amazing life into a life you truly LOVE!
Here is the True Self formula for living a life you LOVE:
Going within and committing to healing and reclaiming the only relationship that's ever been important in your life - your relationship with yourself.
Connecting with and aligning at all times to your True Self - the whole being of who you are in the totality of the universe: your Light, your Source energy for creating all you need and desire, all Divine aspects of you and your Soul
Committing to self-partnering with your True Self as your only source of power in your world to heal, reclaim and create whatever you need in your life and never again look towards the outside world for validation
Releasing your S.T.U.F.F., with your True Self as your guide and ultimate healer on your journey
Reprogramming and filling yourself up with the Universal Truths of who you really are
As an Empathic Lightworker myself, I can say first-hand this is the only formula that truly works.
I’ve made this transition of restructuring my life multiple times...
First through an eight year health crisis, then through separating myself from an abusive family line and finally leaving traumatic and abusive relationships altogether and starting my life anew at each juncture...
Each time my True Self brought to the surface and helped me released the subconscious programs holding me back, which created a life where I:
Gave my power away to everyone else in the hopes they'd take care of me.
Believed the illusion I was making my life an easier place to live by fulfilling the needs of others.
All the Empathic Lightworkers I’ve worked with in my practice have similar stories of surviving severe trauma and coming out the other side, with genuine compassion and empathy intact.
This empathy and awareness are our gifts on this journey because they originate from our True Self.
Which means our True Self has compassion for us and all our life experiences.
This compassion is the LOVE energy it uses to restructure your life.
There is no judgement in this process.
Any judgement you feel is only another limiting subconscious program coming to the surface telling you, "You're unworthy of love and compassion."
Realizing these feelings are a sign another limiting program is ready to be released, you release the judgement and fear of criticism, rejection, abandonment and punishment throughout your body and your life.
Another space has been opened within you and filled with your more of your Light and Truth of who you actually are.
Which, in its essence, is another opening for a miracle to be experienced in your life.
We will at some point ask our True Self this question…
“Why did this happen to me?”
Which, is really a question your inner wounded child is asking, still stuck in those experiences.
When your True Self answers this question, it begins the healing process of reclaiming that younger you and releasing them from those traumatic experiences:
“It didn’t happen to you, dear one...it happened for you. You agreed to this when you came down in this body because you're a warrior of Light who brings your Light into the world even through the darkest of nights. Your Light will never leave you and grows stronger inside of you, despite all you've gone through. Now you know where and what the darkness is all about so you can help others connect to heir light as well. You are courageous and strong to take this on for the world. Thank you for being you."
Your Soul Mission IS the higher purpose of your experience:
To experience the trauma and wounding that has been playing out in this world for eons so that at some point you can shift the trauma and wounding out of yourself, your family line and the collective of humanity, which positively shifts us all into the divine creators and truth of who we are and therefore positively shifts the entire universal tapestry of creation.
I guarantee you have agreed to come into this lifetime and experience this trauma and pain because you have this major Soul Mission above.
That’s why the journey into empowerment can feel so overwhelming – the world has been playing out extreme victimhood programs through millennia.
You've come down, carried with you, experienced first hand and agreed to help release these programs.
It’s a deeply engrained belief system that you’re here to shift through coming back to yourself.
And I promise you, the overwhelm is only a temporary state of being…
It does get better.
Because, Empathic Lighworkers like yourself, are meant to wake up and bring their amazing light and truth into this world.
Especially now during this evolutionary pivot point into more and more high vibrational awareness.
But until you do wake up, and work the True Self formula above, the universe will always keep nudging you to go within and connect to your True Self.
Universal nudges get stronger through giving you more and more depleting experiences in order for you to finally say, “Enough is enough!”
And unshakably commit to your inner path of looking at and releasing your S.T.U.F.F., which these experiences have always been mirroring for you.
When you start looking at and releasing your S.T.U.F.F., you’re really also releasing the collective timelines, past life timelines and ancestral timelines of our S.T.U.F.F. as well.
Which means, all the times you’ve felt you’re here to make a huge difference on this planet, but not really understanding how...
You were right!
You were just seeing this soul mission through the lens of your S.T.U.F.F.
Thinking you were here to help and heal others at the expense of yourself.
When you look at life through the lens of your S.T.U.F.F., it never makes any sense.
It only makes sense when you go within, look at and release your S.T.U.F.F….
And when you start releasing your S.T.U.F.F., you witness the miraculous healing of your life all around you as you continue to self-partner with your True Self.
And you begin to understand the only way to heal the world….
Is by healing yourself.
When you shift, the universe shifts.
That’s the biggest truth there is.
“The deeper you go within, the vaster the universe becomes,” as Lyssa Royal Holt so eloquently put it.
Here's what I’ve learned coming out the other side and recreating a life I truly LOVE and helping hundreds of people in my practice do the same…
There is no other way to create a life you LOVE than by:
Self-partnering with your True Self
Releasing your wounding and traumas from your body
Understanding the higher purpose of your experiences
And filling yourself up with your Light and Truth
And yes, I'm here to say, you can do this!
Dive deep, my friend, it’s the only way out and into the amazing you and a life you LOVE!
If this resonates with you, then I invite you to join me in one of my specialty sessions or programs and take back your power by learning to self-partner with your True Self and clear the subconscious programs and inner wounding keeping you small.
You CAN be seen again and share your incredible gifts and light with the world…without fear!
Get your light out into the world and help others step into their light as well, just by being you – the self-partnered and empowered Empathic Lightworker version.
Become a part of a community of Empathic Lightworkers who have gone within, self-partnered with their True Self and are powerfully anchored on their journey of healing their traumas and woundings and living a life they LOVE.