It’s Time for Empaths to Become "Empathic Lightworkers"!

September 20, 2019


So what’s the difference between an Empath and an "Empathic Lightworker"?


I’ve created the term Empathic Lightworker, because I found, on my journey and witnessing the journey of others, the empowered version of being an Empath is the world of an Empathic Lightworker.


It’s the other side of the coin.


And as an Empathic Lightworker myself, I LOVE helping Empaths step out into their light, reclaim themselves and light up the world as an empowered, confident and self-partnered Divine channel of their own True Self…


Otherwise known as helping Empaths become Empathic Lightworkers.


It’s my big Soul Mission.


And a journey I’ve walked through in my own life and helped hundreds of people do the same.



As an Empathic Lightworker…


You ARE special because of your unique intuitive and healing gifts.


You are ALSO just empathic, picking up on the needs of others with your finely tuned intuitive and healing gifts.


You are NOT destined for a life where you will always have to protect yourself from the world.


You CAN step onto your true path of empowerment and step out into the world, without fear.


When we label ourselves as an Empath, however, we easily get stuck in the unhealed or lower-level experiences of an Empath.


I call this "Empath Survival Mode".


It goes something like this…


“I’m an Empath…I’m special because of my over sensitivity.  I feel everything and I need to protect myself from other people because the world is not a safe place.  Because of this, I find I cannot go out into public spaces without protecting myself from the outside world and even then I’m drained and take on everyone else’s stuff.  I’ve found it’s easier for me to be an observer and help those in the spotlight than risk putting myself out there.  I’ve found if I stay small and in my own world, it feels safer.” 


Living like this (and we all start out like this, myself included), creates an outer fixation where we focus on the outer world and try to fix and heal it in order to feel safe within our self.


Which creates:


  • Intuitively and energetically feeling the state of everyone around you and your world.

  • Trying to fix the world to help yourself feel safe inside.

  • Giving away your power in order to not be seen.

  • Diming your light, so that others can feel good shining theirs.


When we live "outer to inner", we forgot about our self.  


In essence, we’ve left the steering wheel of our life and body and anyone or anything can affect us immensely at the drop of a hat.


Until we realize how to come back to ourselves and reclaim our life, we can never really help others do the same.


Because this outwardly focused state is a very precarious way of living.


It’s a universal law, what we focus upon grows.


When we’re in survival mode and focused on how to survive, every now and again we’ll have a small win or feel safe for a short period of time.


But it’s fleeting.




Because we’re not in the driver’s seat and anyone and anything can come in and steer our wheel. 


Which means the normal up’s and down’s of life rock us to the core.


In this outwardly focused state, as an Empath, we look to the circumstances of our life and the people around us to determine our worth.


Because when we were very young our intuition was not validated by others and we learned to trust the guidance of those who were not self-partnered or empowered, instead of our self.


We disowned our inner wisdom.


When we’re looking to others to validate our choices, it’s really easy to attract:


  • People who manipulate, use and abuse to gain their source of power.

  • And very limiting experiences where those are the only people we can turn to for help.


In the healing, teaching and service oriented professions, where Empaths work their gifts of compassion and healing, we find we’re working for, employing, partnering with or attracting clients, like the people above, who:


  • Deplete our energy

  • Become fast friends and ignore our personal boundaries

  • Want a deal or trade for services right away

  • Subtly or directly put down our gifts, make us feel less than or doubt ourselves in any way

  • Make it seem as though we can’t live without them or they’re the only ones who will work with us


But here’s the secret to moving out of this disempowered path and into the path of the empowered Empathic Lightworker where we attract genuinely good, healthy and responsible people and experiences into our life:


We were never meant to play small and give our power away to anyone.


No matter what they promised us or what limiting experience we’re having with them.


Because everything we create in our world comes from our inner state.


This is the Quantum Law of the Universe, “as within, so without.”


Which means all our subconscious disempowering programs we learned from the people around us and especially during childhood have been running the show, creating very familiar painful experiences over and over again, trying to get our attention, letting us know we need to get back to our own steering wheel and self-partnering with our True Self in order to change our life.

No one can do this for you.


The only person we need to give our power to is our self.


When we realize this, we step onto the empowered path of the Empathic Lightworker.


So how do you heal and release those subconscious programs and start creating a life you truly LOVE as an Empathic Lightworker, feeling truly safe within yourself to get out into the world with your gifts?


By going within and self-partnering with to your True Self, where powerful Source energy and your wholeness works within the Quantum Field of unlimited possibilities to release and reprogram easily, what I like to call, your S.T.U.F.F. 


Stuck emotions and subconscious programs

Tricky situations and past experiences

Ugly projections

False Selves



Your True Self knows how to find and release all the subconscious programs, woundings, traumas and fears trapped in your body, energy field and throughout your journey as a soul.


And it knows this is the only way out and into your empowerment. 


Anything else is just a short-term solution for a long-term issue that will keep getting more chaotic and more dramatic until you start looking within and clearing the programs holding you back.


Stepping away from fixing the outer world and connecting back to your light, within your body and being, which is truly who you are – your True Self - is the key.


When you partner with your True Self, you partner with the whole being of who you are in the totality of the universe:


  • Your light

  • Your source

  • All Divine aspects of you

  • Your soul


Everything is contained within you as your True Self.


Your True Self is your power point - the birthing center of all your creations.

It’s your manifesting mojo!


The place that reclaims, heals and recreates your life quicker than you thought humanly possible.


Because the more you focus inwardly, the more your life changes for the better.


Working with your True Self to heal those inner wounds and release the false subconscious programs reroutes your life to the expansive, abundant, connected and genuinely loving world you never really thought was possible for yourself.


In other words, your world finally becomes the safe and supportive place where you can truly be yourself.


On this journey, one of the biggest subconscious programs I’ve seen, that the True Self will bring to the surface and will rear its ugly head in so many ways in your life until you release it, is this:


“If I shine, then people will target me to take my light, or rip me down.”


If that one resonates with you, by golly you’re on your way to becoming an empowered Empathic Lightworker! 


Because it’s all about awareness…taking those subconscious programs and making them conscious.


This is what real transformation looks like.


You can finally be who you’re meant to be out in the world and be the Divine channel of your True Self, no one else’s.


You are not responsible for another person’s healing.  You’re only responsible for your own.


This is the honing beacon your True Self is calling you back to yourself with.


And it’s calling you now because we’re at an important evolutionary pivot point on this earth that needs Empaths to become empowered Empathic Lightworkers.


Now, more than ever!


You don’t need to be fully healed to see the transformation unfold.  


The act of self-partnering and working your S.T.U.F.F. starts shifting your life in amazing ways.


Because here’s the other secret Empathic Lightworkers all know…


When you shift and heal, the world shifts and heals.

That’s how true change happens on this planet and in our universe, which is connected to your bigger soul mission as an Empathic Lightworker:


To help the world clear old fear based programs of playing small and giving our power away to something outside of ourselves, so we can step into being the powerful creators we truly are by self-partnering with our True Self and healing our S.T.U.F.F.

But that only happens when we stop trying to heal the world and start going within.


Get your light out into the world and help others step into their light as well, just by being you – the self-partnered and empowered Empathic Lightworker version.