As Empaths, It’s Time to Release Fear in Our Business…

October 20, 2019

 

On the disempowered Empath journey, we walk with fear.

 

Not the burn your hand on the stove type of fear, but real inner painful, scary, confusing and all around overwhelming fear…

 

That always lives right below the surface.

 

Because we’re carrying unhealed past pain, trauma and wounding in our bodies.


That is screaming for us to release and heal.

 

When we step out into new territories in our business and in our lives…

 

This fear rears its ugly head.


But not in the clearly defined ways fear does when you’re about to walk off a cliff edge.

 

It's in the subtle confusion of emotional turmoil.

 

Born from inner subconscious survival programs running behind the scenes.

 

Trying to start a task in your business that will take you to the next level...

 

Creates escalating fear and confusion – turning simple into complicated.

 

Or making a phone call to a client...

 

While sweating and worrying about whether they’ll like you.

 

Our ego is the ruler of our false selves...

 

These fears come from our childhood wounding.

 

And the projections of others…

 

Which our ego took on and turned into the following false selves (personalities) we run during triggering times in our lives:

 

  • Overwhelmed Self

  • Confused Self

  • Escapist Self

  • Avoidant Self

  • Victim Self

  • Angry and Tortured Self

 

These ego created personalities manifest what we need in our world when we aren’t aligned to creating from our True Self.

 

And because our ego feeds off our pain body and will create pain and drama to get a fix…

 

The ego will take every opportunity to create more drama and hardship in our lives…

 

To feed the ego it’s false sense of power and control.

 

Until we learn to create with our True Self.

 

And run our own true power within our bodies and our lives.

 

When we’re looking to the outside world to save us and we’re not in our empowerment, we use what we find around us to create.

 

The stories others give us.

 

The behaviors we see around us.

 

The feelings we know we need to run in order to fit in.

 

And our deep subconscious survival fears, which our ego learned how to turn into it’s power supply.

 

So now at every turn…

 

When money is needed and bills come in to be paid…

 

We run the old programs of emotional distress we saw our caregivers exhibit and we felt in our bodies when we had to fend for ourselves and weren’t taken care of.

 

"Will I survive?"

 

"Can I do this?"

 

"I need someone to take care of me."

 

"Why does this always happen to me?"

 

"The world is [insert victimhood adjective here]."

 

And we continue to run the same programs in our business.

 

Even during the most simplest of tasks.

 

Because we’re looking to the outside world to save us.


The most insidious survival program there is.

 

Which is easy to run, when we’ve learned to believe we won’t be able to survive on our own.

 

Running a business with this belief is scary.

 

When we’re the one that makes or breaks the survival of our business…

 

Our old survival programs of “I can’t do this” come up.

 

And to create more drama, we look for advice from others, outside of ourselves to help us figure things out.

 

It doesn't matter if we take that advice or not.

 

Because that wasn't the point.

 

We weren't asking because it was inspired.


We were asking because we're afraid and subconsciously looking to see if others would take care of us.

 

Because we learned to run the energies of chaos and emotional turmoil when anything even remotely connected to our survival comes up in our lives.

 

The difference between an empowered creator and a disempowered one is this:

 

Disempowered Creators create through emotional turmoil, fear and false survival programs.

 

Empowered Creators create through self-partnering with their own truths…

 

Changing and healing the false stories within…

 

Using fear as a tool to release their wounding and get into vibrational match for what they do want…

 

And know that they are the most powerful creator of their own lives, no one else.

 

Melanie Tonia Evans has a great way of understanding fear at it’s most simple levels within our lives. 

 

She says we usually fear C.R.A.P….

 

Criticism

Rejection

Abandonment

Punishment

 

So the next time you feel confusion, lack or painful emotions…

 

It’s usually tied to a fear of C.R.A.P.

 

And you can ask yourself…

 

“What part of C.R.A.P. am I afraid of? 

 

Criticism? 

 

Rejection? 

 

Abandonment? 

 

And/or punishment?”

 

Notice what comes to you.

 

And feel where it is in your body.

 

Give yourself permission to release it.  And let it flow out.

 

Because when we feel fear in our bodies…

 

It’s actually a good thing.

 

It means we’re given the next opportunity to release the false and step into our truth.

 

Which manifests a life we LOVE.

 

You have the key to unlocking the false stories and subconscious programs holding you back in our business.

 

The key is your emotional world...

 

Your emotions and fears, which connect you directly to your subconscious mind.

 

Who really is the creator of your reality.

 

And your subconscious is changeable...

 

Flexible...

 

Malleable...

 

And re-program-able...

 

Because you’re here to shine your light in the empowered way you came here to do in your business…

 

And it’s time to look at the fears holding you back once and for all.

 

So you can step up and shine.

 

If this resonates with you, then I invite you to join me in one of my specialty sessions or programs and take back your power by learning to self-partner with your True Self and clear the subconscious programs and inner wounding keeping you small.

 

Join me in an upcoming class to reclaim your intuitive gifts and step into trusting yourself again.

 

You can be seen again and share your incredible gifts and light with the world…without fear!

 

Get your light out into the world and help others step into their light as well, just by being you – the self-partnered and empowered Empathic Lightworker version.

 

Become a part of a community of Empathic Lightworkers who have gone within, self-partnered with their True Self and are powerfully anchored on their journey of healing their traumas and woundings and living a life they LOVE.

 

 

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